It seems to me to be nearly impossible to live with friends. Why? Because slowly, over time, they convert into part of your daily life. They become just "the people you live with", and you end up taking each other's presence for granted. This has happened to me, to date, 3 times and I'm starting to wonder if it's my problem. Am I just cursed? Or a terrible friend? Or just an introvert who needs alone time but doesn't mind a friendly "hello" and in fact craves it from time to time?
I Don't Know.
But I am now extremely hesitant to live with any friend, because the damage done from living in the state of "granted presence" is that you are never friends again. It's terrible.
-Randa
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